I long...

Lately...it happens that I long for that One whom I know God is preparing right now for me, and I also know that He is preparing me right now for her, so that when He will bring her to me, to the Altar, and when He will introduce "HER" to me...sometimes I imagine that God will PROBABLY tell me something like this :

" WELL, Florian, this is the One for you, but always remember this: a WOMAN is God's undeserved gift to a MAN and she is supposed to be loved, reverenced, protected, respected, and cherished...and all these for the whole life, so, you will learn every day from Me, how TO LOVE HER, TO NURTURE HER, TO RESPECT HER, TO TAKE CARE OF HER NEEDS, JUST AS those needs WOULD BE YOUR OWN NEEDS, you will learn every day how to LOVE HER, BEYOND YOUR OWN EGO, and how to give up your own comfort for her sake, just to see her happy, just to see her smiling, you will deny yourself, you will make from her dreams your own drams, you will make from her joys, your own, you will make from her sadness and sorrows your own, you will discover her always more and more My beauty, you will be a Priest in your home, just as I told you, to do in relationship with Me, AND BY DOING THAT, you will prove me that you have deserved her, and that you are worthy to be called my son, and my disciple, to be your loving wife & friend and YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU WILL BE TOGETHER NOT ONLY ON THIS EARTH, BUT ALSO IN THE ETERNITY"...with God, and with all saved mankind for ever...

So Florian in order to make this woman happy…you have here some Lessons to be learnt:

Learn…how To be there for her, always…

To be there for her when she is ill, …when she doesn’t even knows anymore what is it what she wants….

To be there for her…just to listen to her…

When she is talking to you….and when she doesn’t even want to talk to you…

To be her best friend….

To play with her…

To make her laugh always….

To enjoy her company….

to make her feel the most special in the whole world….as she really is, at least she is for you…

Just to hold her when she feels that need of a friend close to her…

To make time for her…

To make time more for her and less for yourself…To learn how to fulfill her deepest expectations…about being understood…and cherished and loved and respected…

Remember that her opinion is valuable, because she is a very intelligent woman, so, she is valuable…she is smart, she walks with the Lord, so, listen to her…always, be there for her…if you do that, you’ll be a blessing for her…always.

If not, you’re gonna lose your best chance to make her happy…and that will make God very sad…because the purpose He had in mind, even from the first place was that by “offering “ her to you, as a wife, He had in mind two things: to preserve her safe and happy until that day of His returning…and secondly: was to learn each day by loving her, more how to understand God’s love toward you…man.